In America and England, we take the girls out for dinner. But in Sweden, a date is commonly known as a "fika". JOIN THE CLUB. Did soy / rice and more socialism let Asian men viewed upon as ''feminine'' social are so drawn toward white girls is because they both like to say the n word. Ive been in Sweden for 3 years now this is my views on dating! OUTRO BY DJ/ Producer at Deko-ze and Co-Owner and Co-Founder at Jungle.